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Having coached hundreds of young athletes, I've witnessed firsthand how an obsession with winning can crush a child's love for sports and damage their self-worth. When we make everything about trophies and championships, we rob kids of the joy that drew them to the game in the first place. I've seen too many talented players quit by age 14 because the pressure became unbearable, and parents screaming from sidelines turned what should be play into stress. Sports at the youth level should teach life lessons - resilience, teamwork, effort, and grace in both victory and defeat. These lessons stick with kids long after they hang up their cleats. When we emphasize development over winning, kids learn to push through challenges, support teammates, and find satisfaction in personal growth. Yes, competition matters and kids should learn to compete, but the scoreboard shouldn't define their worth or our coaching success. The real victory is when a player who struggled all season finally makes that shot, or when a shy kid finds their voice as a team leader. That's character building that lasts a lifetime.